Saturday, March 31, 2007

Fun, Flat Tire, and Frustration

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A few days after my last post I celebrated my 29th birthday, right here in Kansas City, where I was born 29 years before.  It was on Monday, March 19, and Michael has Mondays off so we decided to do something fun as a family and since it was my birthday I got to pick.  I picked Kaleidoscope, which is a fun (and free) thing for kids that is run by Hallmark.  They take lots of their leftovers, like paper and ribbons and add some extra stuff and let kids go crazy creating whatever art projects they want for 40 minutes.  We attended a family session that day and it was lots of fun.  After that we came home so Dresden could rest before going out for BBQ for dinner.  It turned out that Michael got called into work an overnight shift so the kids and I went out to eat by ourselves but it was fun anyway. Alley asked me what it was going to be like to be 30 and I told her I didn't know, that I had another year until I had to know!

On Tuesday, the kids and I went on a homeschool field trip to a Pet Store and saw lots of fish, snakes, birds, mice, turtles etc. On Wednesday afternoon, the kids and I went to my Grandpa and Grandma Burton's house for lunch and a chocolate birthday cake for me.  Thursday afternoon we headed up to spend the night with Grandma Harrison.  She cooked me a birthday dinner and a yummy red velvet cake.

This last Monday I was able to go to the ladies craft night with the ladies from church and I stamped 4 cards without any distractions or any requests from little people to use my stuff!  On Wednesday, the kids all had check-ups at the doctor.  They weren't really excited about that, especially Dresden who recently got shots and was afraid more were coming!  It will be Alley and Liam's turn to not be excited next Wednesday when they have to go to the dentist!

Last night we stopped at Mc Donalds for a quick dinner on our way to our Home Fellowship group meeting.  After we left McDonalds, my van warned me to stop and check my tires.  I pulled over in a Ryder Truck rental parking lot, expecting to see a tire that was a little low but instead I found one that was going down quickly.  I called Michael first who was at work.  He told me to call the Home Fellowship group leader and let them know where I was and then call our roadside assistance.  Roadside assistance told me it would be about an hour until they could get there.  It turned out that two men from the HF group came instead and put my spare on and we were able to make it for the rest of the HF meeting. The ladies were calling it "Redeemer Assistance" instead of roadside assistance. :) We made it safely home afterwards and Michael is now out getting 4 new tires on the van.  We needed them soon anyway so we decided to get new ones all around.  We did have to sacrifice attending the pancake breakfast at church this morning to make sure we had tires that would get us to worship tomorrow.

Another frustration we have been dealing with lately is a 5 year old "debt" that we did not know we had has suddenly come out of hiding.  Here's what happened:  In late 2000 we got our first cell phone.  When we moved to Germany, our contract was up so we cancelled our plan and moved in March 2002.  In April, I paid what we thought was the final bill.  We never received any more bills or late notices of any kind and we never gave Alltel another thought.  In February 2007 (YES, 5 YEARS later) we receive a notice from a collection agency saying we owe them $35  plus $5 in collection fees.  Of course, we thought it was some kind of mistake and sent a letter disputing the charge, giving them all the information we had.  I may have my old bills in storage or I may have gotten rid of them when I was clearing out to move.  Who would think you need to keep cell phone bills from 4+ years ago when your account is closed and all bills are paid??? Anyway, we received a response this week from them saying we didn't give enough evidence (seems to me they should be doing some proving on their end) for them to investigate our claim and that we need to send copies of our drivers license, copies of our passport info page, receipts, etc.  Sounded kinda fishy to me so I called and got some advice from a financial person who suggested I call the company directly to make sure they actually did show an outstanding balance before doing anything else with the collection company.  I FINALLY got through to a real person at Alltel who transferred me and I  found out from her that they do show an outstanding balance of $35, then she transferred me again and my question to him was why didn't we receive any correspondence about that $35 in 2002???  I finally got from him that they send notices for 147 days and then they sell the debts to the collection agency.  By this time I am really mad because we NEVER received anything from them  AND  he tells me they have our Germany (military address)  and that's where they would have sent the mail.  I told him I found it a little hard to believe that 4-5 notices would have ALL gotten lost in the mail!!!  He said he understood my frustration but that there was nothing he could do about it now since it was not their debt anymore and after all, it was 5 years ago.  EXACTLY!  People who know me, know that I pay my bills and that I do not lose or forget bills.  When something like this happens, it just makes me SO MAD!  I can only assume that the collection agency took 4 AND A HALF YEARS to contact us, remarkably finding our new address after only 4 months, because a $40 debt is not nearly as important as some of the bigger fish they have to fry.  Whatever the reason, it makes me VERY mad!!!!  And I guess the moral of this story is- don't use Alltel for ANY reason!!!!

April is already shaping up to be pretty busy as well.  Resurrection Sunday is only a week from now and Dresden is having her teeth worked on on April 16.  Please pray that there would be no complications and that she would make it the required time without food or drink without too much difficulty.  I am looking forward to a used curriculum book sale on April 14 and the homeschool convention/book fair on April 20-21.

Hope you all have a great weekend!

Thursday, March 15, 2007

Spring is here!

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It seems the groundhog was right, spring is here early!  We have been enjoying some beautiful weather here in Kansas City after so many weeks of frigid temperatures.  It has been in the 70s every day this week until today, which is a little cooler, around 50.  That's not so bad either since we are on the third floor of an apartment building on the Kansas prairie and it was getting a little warm in here!  We have not given in to the desire to turn on the air conditioning yet but have survived so far with open windows.  It has prompted me to go through the kids winter clothes, getting rid of things that are too small or too worn to save for next year and also to make sure they all have plenty for the summer.

On Monday, Michael's day off, we decided to enjoy the great outdoors together by going to the zoo.  We hadn't been since early November when we were having some extra warm days and we were all looking forward to going back.  We splurged on the IMAX, with our Friends of the Zoo discount, and saw a 45 minute film about Hurricane Katrina and the Louisiana wetlands, which was educational and interesting.  We saw many of our favorite animals and Dresden especially loved the tiger but was a little confused when he didn't greet her with the sound effects she uses when we ask her what a tiger says!

Tuesday, March 6, 2007

Urgent Care

This has been a trying week.  It began Wednesday night at 10 pm when Dresden woke up after vomiting.  At first it seemed like a classic stomach bug  and I began to expect the rest of us to begin our turns at any moment.  We were offering little bits of Pedialyte and water to her off and on Thursday.  She went a little longer between "episodes" on Friday, with the last one being Friday night around 9:30.  She wasn't eating much but was keeping everything down on Saturday and I began to think the end was in sight.  Sunday morning I decided to stay home with her because she wasn't acting like herself.  About 30 minutes after Michael and Alley and Liam left for church, she vomited for the first time in 36 hours.  I called an Ask a Nurse line and was told that I might want to take her to Urgent Care at the children's hospital just to be on the safe side.  After Michael and the kids returned with the van,  I grabbed a bottle of water and the book I was reading and Dresden and I headed out.  We spent quite awhile waiting, then had vitals taken, then another hour or so waiting and then were finally shown to an exam room where, once again, we waited.  The doctor finally came in and checked her out.  I told him I was concerned with her lack of bowel movements over the last several days and so we did an Xray that showed quite a bit of gas build up on the right side of her body.  Poor Dresden had to be dressed in a very small hospital gown and given an enema.  Two diapers later, she was feeling much better and fell asleep in my arms while we waited for permission to leave.  I was sitting there in Urgent Care, reading my book, which is a Christian fiction story that is set in the ER of a hospital in a small town in southern Missouri.  This is the third book in this series and I was more interested in the story than the title by this point so I was a little surprised when I glanced down at the cover and noticed the name of the book....URGENT CARE.  :)  I guess the moral of that story is to be careful what books you check out of the library!

But getting back to Dresden...she seemed to feel better when we got home, six long hours after leaving, but she didn't perk up as much yesterday as I expected.  I was beginning to think that something was seriously wrong and we were overlooking something in her symptoms.  Michael prayed for her before we went to bed and then I continued the prayers silently as I tried to fall asleep.  She woke up this morning not showing any drastic improvements but as the day wore on, I noticed her smiling and laughing and playing a little more than she has all week.  I am still keeping her on a bland diet for another day or so until her stomach remembers that its job is to hold on to the food that enters it but as of now, I am very encouraged and thankful that the Dresden we know and love is coming back.

Thank you to all who prayed for her and for us.

Friday, March 2, 2007

Theology 101

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Just as I was finishing my last post,(Wed night) Dresden woke up crying and I went to try to get her back to sleep and discovered vomit in her hair and all over the bed.  Fun.  So, we went straight to the bathtub for the second time that day.  She hates baths, especially getting her hair washed so she was very upset.  After the bath she had two more "episodes" and we finally settled on the couch for the long night ahead.  She slept off and on so that's what I did, too.  She didn't have anything to eat yesterday, just Pedialyte and water.  She didn't keep anything down for longer than an hour or two so we had a very long day.  She's still puny today and fussy and clingy, too.  I am praying that it will be over very soon and that the rest of us won't get it.

This morning Alley asked me this question--  "If Jesus was still on earth and He took a drink of water from a cup and then Dresden drank from the same cup, would she get better?"  And then Liam said,  " Yes, because He has good germs!"   

If you think of it, pray that she does get better soon, even if she can't drink from Jesus' cup :), and that I would have patience in caring for her and cleaning up the messes.  It is astounding how much laundry can be generated by one sick little 22 month old!